Humanity as a
phrase solely has it's meaning which is to be, "ample of human beings".
The touch of an exhibition of a benevolent attitude is to be seen admits
us. Generosity and so on shouldn't be crumpled in our intrusive
doorsteps. We should find life carrying out the defined job.
Criticism
is a futile phrase on it's sole. It's as a stunted growth plant
residing admits indiscernible humans. It's uncalled for and not suppose
to be real. Those people falls to this category of reprimanding others
by unleashing dreadful and lured attitude towards same human - tongue
lashing them.
Carlyle quoted this that, "A
great man shows his greatness by the way he treats little men". I
reasoned with him but placed fools at the sagging edge of it. Scrabbled
and interchanged the quote inputting fools as a replacement. I quote it
otherwise, "a fool shows his lukewarmness by the way he treats little
men". It looks fascinating during the disposition of words there but at
the same time transmit discernible meaning. Many of humans discriminate
and make a procrastination on same human of them. I said this because I
have an illustration to make;
There was a man
who had a son, age of 8. I'd assume him to be too small to be left alone
by his father's side. His father would maltreat him, condemn him,
complain about him and then criticize him. Each time the boy does
anything on define, he never left time to hear the boy out but other
than beat him up. He hits him with iron rods and the likes. So
sympathetic you say? Yes, it is and I felt like forcing tears to steam
down my face. Among the boys friend's, when they are found playing with
toys, he'd just walk on the boys hand intentionally and tears steamed
out down his face. He looks at the heavens thinking of anyone to comfort
him but found no one. But what touched me about the boys attitude was
that at the time he was to sleep at night, he went straight to the
sitting room where his father was restlessly starring at the TV set and
installing information into his decayed brain. The boy went to him,
hugged him and kissed him before he went to bed. The man was touched too
at this climax. He later realized how foolish he is to have criticized
his solely son. He made a restitution and pleaded with the boy when he
traveled to his room but not knowing the boy is gone - dead. His
lukewarmness unleashed itself and made him a fool of himself after the
realization of the futility of criticism.
Benjamin Franklin
said,"I'll speak ill of no man and speak all the good of everybody" and
Confucius said, " don't complain about the snow on your neighbor's roof
when your own doorstep is unclean". The way we criticize and condemn
people arouses resentment and indignation within them. They feel
dejected and are forced to make suicide. Come to think of the assault
and damage it'd cause them assimilating those criticism but finding it
difficult to accept - like a defeat to them. Each time anyone make you
infuriated, exercise patience and hear him out first. He might have his
own reasonable reason for his action. Never have the appetite of
condemning your fellow men. Think alongside with them and instead hug
and kiss them. An illustration of this;
A
mechanic serviced his clients HUMMER JEEP one day. He finished it and
headed to his clients office where he was told to land the jeep. While
getting back to his shop, he received a call from the same client
getting insults from him. Meanwhile, the client had drove out the car
not knowing it'd be knocked down at the insufficient service the
mechanic did. The mechanic fell sick at what he did and short time saw
afar his client coming furiously at him. We would think he was coming to
tongue-lavish the mechanic but it was different. He got to the reach of
the mechanic and placed his arm around his shoulder and said," to make
me not to believe you made a mistake, can you help me repair my F-15
car?". Awwn. I was touched at this comforting episode of the client and
the mechanic. We'd see how the client composed himself and never
criticize the mechanic. That should be our hunger for. He actually
showed his greatness and never speak of ill to his fellowmen but speak
good of them.
In conclusion, instead of
condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out
why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing
than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. "To know
all is to forgive all." As Dr. Johnson said: "God himself, sir, does
not propose to judge man until the end of his days." Why should you and
I?
- Johnmiles.
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